Soft Skills and Personality Development

Social Service Activities of our  NAMBIKKAI VAASAL TRUST self introduction Ezhilarasan Venkatachalam Salem .. Poet. Aekalaivan December 30, 2018 .. Function .. Flanked by two VIPs. . 01) Inaugurated by :  Mr.V.Krishnamoorthy, Chennai, Sree Matha  Charitable Trust in August 2013. 02) In these 5 years, we have helped more than 500 DIFFERENTLY ABLED persons. 03) Honorary Advisor : Lena Thamizhil Vanan, Editor KALKANNDUM (Tamil magazine) 04) Scholarships to DIFFERENTLY ABLED persons. 05) For DIFFERENTLY ABLED persons --- donating apparatuses like wheelchairs,  walking sticks, doing counselling, helping them in getting government concessions and id cards, providing trade skills and boosting their self confidence, assisting in employment, creating public awareness about their struggle for their livelihood,  providing lunch, dinner to deserving DIFFERENTLY ABLED achievers and bring publicity to them, printing and publishing their thoughts as book...

NAMBIKKAI VAASAL TRUST  Ezhilarasan  Venkatachalam Supports Friends,  My differently abled friend, Poet Aekalaivan is doing fantastic services to the DIFFERENTLY ABLED people through his trust. .. ONLINE CLASSES -April 2021 .. BIRDS EYE VIEW of Ezhilarasan VENKATACHALAM's works Good values in the society is eroding day by day. But persons like Poet Aekalaivan instead of planting trees.......  IS GIVING NEW MEANING TO THE GLOOMY LIVES OF MANY DIFFERENTLY ABLED persons in Tamil Nadu. .. TAMIL AMERICA TV interview with Aekalavan - தமிழ் அமெரிக்கா டீ வி. பேட்டி  . .. Poet Aekalaivan flanked by Mr. Suki Sivam and Mr. Lena Thamilvanan on December 30, 2018. . Ezhilarasan Venkatachalam getting books from Mr.SUKI SIVAM LIKE A SMALL SQUIRREL HELPING LORD RAMA. I CONTRIBUTED Rs.1,500  TO THE TRUST AND RECEIVED 25 BOOKS IN RETURN. ... .. MY VISIT DETAILS ... as a narrative   .. . SUKI SIVAM - BOOK RELEASE FUNCTION-SP MUTHURAMAN-my diary  ...

Suki Sivam's article  Translation -  please give  me "MIRACLE"   . . Friends / Sir, An article Translated from a Tamil book "VETRI NICHCHAYAM" (SUCCESS GUARANTEED) written by SUKI SIVAM is given below. READ, RELISH, RUMINATE. Ezhilarasan. =॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥= Please give me "MIRACLE" She was an 8 year old girl. Her younger brother was very seriously ill. What disease his brother had, what should be done to cure him? These things she hardly knew. She was just an innocent child. Suddenly their parents shifted to a very small house. In order to compensate for the additional expenses for his medicines, food and hospital charges they had to take this step. To save the life of their son, they were spending thousands and thousand of rupees. But, the parents did not want their 8 year old daughter to know about their difficulties. Once the girl over-heard her parents talking dejectedly between themselves, "Only a MIRACLE could save...

Struggle of a Doctor after an accident and how he learnt to write with his LEFT HAND and succeded   . I read this in a reputed Tamil magazine.I had just translated the content and retold it in my style. I hope it will give self-confidence to many people. TAMIL TRANSLATION / தமிழில்  Mr.Ramesh Kanna and Mrs.Santhi were a newly married couple. Mr. Ramesh was a qualified doctor. Unfortunately, within 40 days after getting married, he sustained a head injury. It happened following a fall in his bathroom. Due to this, his right hand and right leg lost its functions. But his mother, Mrs.Vanitha Sankaran keep on saying  POSITIVE THINGS to the newly married couple. As a first job, she first gave him a four-ruled note-book and asked him to practice writing with his LEFT HAND. A qualified doctor started to learn writing, once again, like a school kid, with his left hand. It was really challenging to learn to write again with the left hand. But he worked hard and succee...

Coconut shell story and Einstein disappoints audience story    . Online English class _ தமிழ் வழி ஆங்கில பயிற்சி   ..  Friends, Recently, a friend from Hosur told me that I am continuously sending very "HIGH QUALITY" content which made it very difficult for him to read. So he suggested a break and asked me to send "LIGHTER CONTENT". I should thank him for the feedback. To my surprise, he told this with a story. It was a long time that somebody typed out a story as a reply for my post or message. Mostly I will be getting forward message and some with a threatening annexure, "IF YOU ARE A TRUE TAMILIAN, IMMEDIATELY FORWARD THIS MESSAGE" Coconut shell Story Once a pandit was taking meals after conducting a paid DEATH ANNIVERSARY CEREMONY SERVICES (thithi) in a house without doing any talking. The lady of the house accidentally served a piece of coconut shell in the meals. He ate it because one should not waste the meal. It will be considered disr...

My road accident and inspiration from Shivani Guptha I am indebted to Shivani Guptha, a wheelchair confined lady, who gave me new energy to my life in May 2007. m -- .. Tamil translation part 1 Friends,   On 12th April 2007 at 9.30pm I met with a road accident.  I had two fractures, one on my right leg and another on my right hand. - BIRDS EYE VIEW of Ezhilarasan VENKATACHALAM's works I have a six inch steel or alloy implant in my right thigh even today. I was lucky enough to get immediate medical attention. However, I was bed ridden for 3 months and under house confinement for another 5 months.  Though I was taken care of excellently by my family, I was very dejected. Every 6 weeks Dr.G.Premnath who did the implant said, "YOUR ARE OLD HENCE HEALING WILL BE SLOW, YOU NEED 6 MORE WEEKS." But indirectly I understood eventually I will be able to walk at least within a year. Then after about 30 days in bed, one day, I read about a 38 year old lady Shivani Guptha, then a...

Fitting Cheap FLAT REAR VIEW  MIRRORs in two wheelers Venkatachalam Salem My thoughts after reading the news item   .. The Amritsar train accident on 22.10.2018 . Friends, It was very painful to watch in TV news that a train ploughing through hundreds of people standing on the tracks watching the crackers bursting at the DUSSERA celebrations. While writing this article, the news said that there were 63 dead and about 100 injured. However, it was a relief to know that Rs 5 Lakhs compensation from the State government and Rs.2 Lakhs from the Central  government had been declared. But it seems the relatives of the deceased are demanding "more" compensation from the authorities. And also other benefits like jobs etc. It was sheer negligence on the part of the public to stand on the railway tracks. Now their family members are claiming more compensation. It is fair? These points made me think and write the below matter. REAR VIEW MI...

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SUICIDE DATA IN INDIA (2012 STATISTICS) . The suicide news of Mr. Sankar, Founder of SANKAR IAS ACADEMY, CHENNAI forced me to collect data about this subject. 👇 =॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥= Suicide in India (Based on 2012 data) (ABRIDGED VERSION) India's suicide rate per 100,000 people compared to other countries, according to the World Health Organization, Geneva. Peeter Värnik claims China, India, Russia, United States, Japan, and South Korea are the biggest contributors to the absolute number of suicides in the world. Värnik claims India's adjusted annual suicide rate is 10.5 per 100,000, while the suicide rate for the world as a whole is 11.6 per 100,000. About 800,000 people commit suicide  worldwide every year, of these 135,000 (17%) are residents of India, a nation with 17.5% of world population. Between 1987 and 2007, the suicide rate increased from 7.9 to 10.3 per 100,000, with higher suicide rates in southern and eastern states of India. In 2012, Tamil ...

SUICIDE OF SANKAR IAS AC AD EMY COMES AS A GREAT SHOCK TO ME. # Friends # SUICIDE OF SANKAR IAS AC AD EMY ...COMES AS A GREAT SHOCK TO ME. . . Where is the society going ? We have so many facilities to make our life easy and simple when compared with the previous generations. But suicide of school students and others is on the increase. I AM VERY SAD TO READ THE NEWS ABOUT THE SUICIDE OF SANKAR IAS ACADEMY FOUNDER MR.SANKAR, AT THE AGE OF 45 YEARS, A FEW DAYS AGO. DUE TO ADVANCEMENT IN TECHNOLOGY HOUSE HOLD WORKS LIKE GRINDING AND WASHING HAD BEEN AUTOMATED IN INDIA MORE THAN THREE DECADES AGO. AND AFTER THE ARRIVAL OF COMPUTERS THE OFFICE ENVIRONMENT ALSO BECAME AUTOMATED. AROUND JULY 2017 OR SO, I READ AN ARTICLE THAT said "MENTAL DEPRESSION" IS GOING TO BE THE  NO.1 KILLER DISEASE BY 2020 . IT WILL BE PUSHING HEART DISEASE TO SECOND PLACE.  WHICH MEANS YOU AND I WILL DEFINITELY BE AFFECTED. SINCE THAT DAY, I HAD BEEN COLLECTING MANY ENLIGHTENING ARTICLES ...

How to Be Happy? - In short  Happiness is not a simple goal, but is about making progress, when it's as elusive as ever. .. TAMIL_translation/_ தமிழ்_மொழிபெயர்ப்பு  Being happy often means continually finding satisfaction, contentment, a feeling of joy, and a sense that your life is meaningful during all kinds of problems — that does not depend upon finding ease or comfort. .. OTHER WORKS OF EZHILARASAN VENKATACHALAM   Online classes  Nobody is jolly or elated all the time, but some individuals are definitely more fulfilled/ fortunate than others. Some studies reveal that happiness has little to do with comfort or possessions — so what is it about? A sense of well being/happiness is good for your health, so what can we do to have that? Read on to learn how to be happier. LIST OF POINTS 1 Change your thoughts. 2 Look for the "positive" in all your experiences. 3 Cultivate optimism. 4 Practice "active gratitude". 5 Determine your core values....

Translation :   you are emotionally, physically, financially.. the average of the five people you spend the most time with. . INTERESTING QUOTE :  ... ".. you are emotionally, physically, financially.. the average of the five people you spend the most time with." சுவையான மேற்கோள்  ... நீங்கள் உணர்ச்சி ரீதியாக, உடல்ரீதியாக, நிதி ரீதியாக மேலும் மற்றவைகளில்.. எப்படி இருப்பீர்கள் என்றால், நாள்தோறும் உங்கள் நேரத்தை அதிகம் எந்தெந்த  ஐந்து நபர்களிடம் பங்கிட்டுக் கொள்கிறீர்களோ அந்த ஐந்து நபர்களின் சராசரி பண்புகள் கொண்டவனாக தான் திகழ்வீர். Excerpts from article titled : .......................................................................... 10 Things The Most Successful People Do Every Day By Eric Barker   (Point No.8) எரிக் பர்க்கர் எழுதிய  ஒரு பெரிய  மனோத்துவ கட்டுரையில் இருந்து   பகுதி 8. .................................................. ...... கட்டுரை தலைப்பு : அதிசிறந்த வெற்றியாளர்கள்  ஒவ்வொரு நாளும் செய்கின்...

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SHARK MAKES FISHES ACTIVE TAMIL SOFT SKILLS EZHILARASAN    . . // ஒரு குட்டி கதை // பொதுவாக ஜப்பானியர்கள் மீன் உணவை மிக விரும்பிச் சாப்பிடுபவர்கள் ! அது ஜப்பான் நாட்டின் ஒரு தீவு. அந்தத் தீவு மக்களும் அப்படியே மீன் உணவை விரும்பிச் சாப்பிட, படகெடுத்து சில கிலோமீட்டர்கள் தொலைவில் உள்ள கடற்பகுதிக்குச் செல்வார்கள். அங்கிருந்து திரும்பி வர இரண்டு நாட்களாகிவிடும். அக்குறிப்பிட்ட இடத்தில் கிடைக்கும் மீன்கள்தான் மிக ருசியானதாக இருக்கும். ஆனால், மீன் பிடித்து கொண்டு வர இரண்டு நாட்களாகி விடுவதால் அந்த மீனின் சுவை குறைந்துவிடும். மீனவர்கள் கையோடு, ஐஸ்கட்டிகளைக் கொண்டு சென்று அதில் பதப்படுத்திக் கொண்டு வந்தார்கள். ஆனாலும், மக்களுக்கு திருப்தி இல்லை. ஃப்ரெஷ் மீனுக்கும் ஐஸ் கட்டிகளில் வைக்கப்பட்ட மீனுக்கும் சுவை வேறுபடுவதை உணர்ந்தனர் ! இப்பொழுது மீனவர்கள், ஒரு சிறு தண்ணீர் தொட்டி ஒன்றைச் செய்து, அதில் மீன்களைப் பிடித்துப் போட்டு கொண்டு வந்தனர் ! ஆயினும், அத்தனை பெரிய கடற்பரப்பில் நீந்திக்கொண்டிருந்த மீன்கள், சிறிய தண்ணீர்த் தொட்டியில் இரண்டு நாட்களாக சோம்பிக் கிடப்பதினால் ம...

12 Tips to success -in Tamil நீங்கள் வெற்றியாளரா சுய பரிசோதனை செய்ய 12 வழிமுறைகள்!    #SuccessTips .................. நீங்கள் வெற்றியாளரா, தோல்வியாளரா? இப்படி ஒரு கேள்வியை யாரும் விரும்ப மாட்டார்கள் என்பதே உண்மை. ஏனெனில், எல்லோருமே வெற்றிப்படியை எட்டிப் பிடிக்கவே ஆசைப்படுகிறோம். ஆனால்,வெற்றியாளர்களுக்கும் தோல்வியாளர்களுக்கும் சில விஷயங்களில் வித்தியாசம் உண்டு. குறிப்பாக 12 விஷயங்களில்!  அவற்றைத் தெரிந்து கொண்டு, சரியான வழிமுறைகளக் கடைப்பிடித்தாலே போதும். நீங்களும் வெற்றியாளரே! அவை... 01 பிழைகள் வெற்றியாளர்: தன் மேலுள்ள தவறை பிறர் சுட்டிக்காட்டும்போது அதனை எதிர்க்க மாட்டார்; ஏற்றுக்கொண்டு அதைச் சரிசெய்துகொள்வதற்கான வழிமுறைகளை யோசிப்பார் . தோல்வியாளர்: தன் தவறை மற்றவர் மீது சுமத்திவிட்டு, தான் எப்படித் தப்பிக்கலாம் என்று யோசிப்பார். தன்னுடைய தவறைத் திருத்திக்கொள்ள எந்த முயற்சியையும் மேற்கொள்ள மாட்டார். 02 எண்ண ஓட்டம் வெற்றியாளர்: இயற்கையாகவே உறுதியான எண்ண ஓட்டத்தைக் கொண்டிருப்பார். தன் உணர்சிகளையும் கருத்துகளையும் நல்லெண்ண அடிப்படையிலேயே சிந்திப்பவர் இவர். ...

Power of being a teacher . . . This is interesting info : In 1994 INDIAN President Shri Shankar Dayal Sharma visited Muscat on official trip. When AI flight landed  3 rare incidents happened 1. Oman King never visits airport to receive dignitaries of any country - never . But the Oman king came to the airport to receive the  President 2. When the flight landed the Oman King climbed up the steps and received the President from his seat. 3 . After alighting the flight there was a car with the  Chauffeur standing . But the  King signalled the driver to move and he himself drove the car and escorted  the  President  to the Hotel  suite. Later when the  reporters questioned the King why he broke so many protocols, the  King replied : .“ I did not go to the  airport to receive Mr. Sharma because he was India’s President . I studied in India and  learnt so many things. When I was studying in PUNE , Mr. Sharma was my Pr...

Saroja aunty predicts my doubles driving ability long before I tried that. .. Let me tell a real life incident that I narrated to a sishya. It was to develop his " POSITIVE THINKING ". My Baby Saroja aunty (சின்னம்மா)  PREDICTED that I can drive doubles in my TVS 50. BUT SHE CAN'T EVEN DRIVE A CYCLE. HOW? BIRDS EYE VIEW of Ezhilarasan VENKATACHALAM's works .. ONLINE CLASSES -April 2021 .. Please read on .. A flashback  to around  2002  !! Long back i.e., about 15 years ago, I was driving only singles in my moped, TVS 50. When I shared the fact with my maternal aunty, Bangalore Baby Saroja, she told me casually,  “ Ezhil, do not worry, one day I am sure you will be able to drive your TVS 50 with your wife on the back seat of your two wheeler vehicle .” She generally does not talk unnecessarily anything to anyone.  Hence, I "recorded" that statement in my mind. Then after a few years my wife learnt to drive TVS 50 on her own.  I was waiting f...

25.08.2018 Dear friends, When the tsunami played havoc in December 2004, isha guru Jakki Vasudev wrote an article in Tamil in the magazine, Anantha Vikatan. It communicated in a lengthy article how we should react in case of a calamity. It helped me gradually come out of the the sadness then. I also translated that impressive article into English then and posted in a blog of mine. The recent havoc nature played on the people of Kerala was very painful to acknowledge.  While I was wondering whether I should great the Keralities for ONAM or communicate my concern for the bereaved lot, my friend SABARINATHAN's (HCMS78) words  brought out my exact feelings  ..  To repeat Sabbari's words... .. "Wish Manohar and family members, a very joyous and Happy Onam. May the Rain God show mercy on the Keralites to have an  enchanting and entertaining days and years ahead!" These soothing words made me recall a translation I did of JAKKI VASUDEV's article in 2005...

Run your own Race that leads to Peaceful, Happy Steady Life. .. Translation / தமிழ் மொழிபெயர்ப்பு  I was Cycling this morning and I noticed a person about half a km ahead. I could guess he was Cycling a little slower than me and that made me feel good. Hard words Meanings / vocabulary I said to myself I will try catch up with him. So I started Cycling faster and faster. Every block, I was gaining on him a little bit. After just a few minutes I was only about 100 feet behind him. So I really picked up the pace and pushed myself. I was determined to catch up with him. Finally, I did it! I caught up and passed him. Inwardly I felt very good. "I beat him". Of course, he didn't even know we were racing. After I passed him, I realized I had been so focused on competing against him that.. *I had missed my turn to my house*. I had missed the focus on my inner peace. I missed to see the beauty of greenery around. I missed to do my inner soul searching meditation. An...