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Happy ONAM greetings and TSUNAMI DISASTER RECALLED SOFT SKILLS EZHILARASAN

25.08.2018

Dear friends,

When the tsunami played havoc in December 2004, isha guru Jakki Vasudev wrote an article in Tamil in the magazine, Anantha Vikatan. It communicated in a lengthy article how we should react in case of a calamity. It helped me gradually come out of the the sadness then. I also translated that impressive article into English then and posted in a blog of mine.

The recent havoc nature played on the people of Kerala was very painful to acknowledge.  While I was wondering whether I should great the Keralities for ONAM or communicate my concern for the bereaved lot, my friend SABARINATHAN's (HCMS78) words  brought out my exact feelings
 .. 
To repeat Sabbari's words...
..
"Wish Manohar and family members,
a very joyous and Happy Onam.
May the Rain God show mercy on
the Keralites to have an  enchanting and entertaining days and years ahead!"

These soothing words made me recall a translation I did of JAKKI VASUDEV's article in 2005 or so.

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My introduction

Dear Friends,

Last year on the first week of December 2004 itself I purchased quite a few postcards and asked my children to get ready some greetings
messages before the New Year. But when the tsunami struck on December
26, 2004 I dropped the idea of sending New Year greetings. With lot of reluctance, I posted New Year greetings message to my friends and
 well-wishers over the net. However, I was not sure whether what I did was right or wrong.

Then I happened to read an article in a tamil magazine I felt the article immediately relieved my sorrow. I was so impressed by the article that I re-wrote it in English for a variety of reasons. I give below the article in English, in my style, for your information and comments on the point, if any.

(Translated or Re-written in  English by V.Ezhil Arasan in 2004)

Translated Article below ..

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The Tsunami Disaster

You can always visualize any loss as an opportunity for growth.
Recently while sleeping in her bed under the sea, the giant angel,
mother Earth, just turned a little. The after effect was - we all know, the Tsunami Disaster. My God ! Certain places near the seashore simply disappeared in a few minutes. Many lives were swallowed by the giant waves.

We have paid the fine for building houses near the seashore, not
bothering much for the obvious hidden danger. When the sea gave lakhs
and lakhs of fishes as wealth, we simply did not care to appreciate
its generosity. But once when she struck hard, we immediately started
considering her as our enemy.

It is very unfortunate that this calamity struck us all when we were eagerly anticipating the New Year, especially in the South India. There immediately after the New Year we have the Pongal festival. The tsunami has put us in a dilemma whether to grieve with the affected people or celebrate the festival.

It is not necessary for all of us to go to the affected areas and sit and cry along with the people to show our solidarity. It is not compulsory for us to get drenched in their tears and cry all day.

Please answer one question. Who can help a sick person? Definitely
only a healthy person can do that. Similarly, who can bring back cheers to the mourning people? Definitely only a healthy person can do that. Please do not retort, "What are you saying? When a big lot is in grief, how can it be correct to be cheerful and happy? Is this the million-dollar question that arises in your mind? Then read on.
Let me tell you one thing. There are certain people who never get
satisfied with what they have. Even if they have hundred comforts to enjoy, their mind will always think about the 101-th comfort that they do not have. I am not talking about this type of happiness and satisfaction.

Who told that happiness is just bursting of crackers, wearing new
dresses and eating tasty dishes? Showing love is happiness,
comforting a crying person is happiness, embracing a wailing person
is happiness, giving a helping hand with heart and soul to a person who very badly needs help is happiness, revamping your thoughts without any anticipated benefits is happiness. There is happiness not only in receiving. There is happiness even in giving. Science tells that food gives energy for any hungry person. But,
Buddha says that if you hold back your hunger and give your food to
another hungry person, this act gives you "tremendous energy".

A Short story

A washer-man was once washing the clothes in the river. Suddenly, he
saw a very shinning stone in the riverbed. He picked it up and tied
it on his donkey's neck. When he came back to the town for returning
the washed clothes, a jewelry merchant noticed the glittering stone
hanging from the donkey's neck. He called the washer-man and wanted
to purchase the stone. He offered one Rupee for the stone. But the
washer-man demanded five Rupees. The merchant did not agree, he was
persistently bargaining with him. He was slowly increasing the
bidding value rupee by rupee. Noticing this, another merchant from a
nearby shop came near and said, "Okay, man, I will give Rs.1000 for
this and it is the final price. No bargain. What you say?" For this,
the washer-man immediately agreed. The merchant gave away Rs.1000 got
the stone and went away hurriedly.

After this the first merchant came near the washer-man and told, "You
fool! It was a diamond. It is worth a lakh and odd rupees. You had been stupid in selling it for just Rs.1000. For this, the washer-man replied, "What you say might be true. For me, it was just an ordinary stone, so getting Rs.1000 was a great profit. But, you knew very well that it was a diamond. And still you did not have the generosity topay even Rs.5 for it. Now decide for yourself who is a fool."
You have a priceless gift of Humane Nature deep inside your heart.
Are you like the ungenerous jewelry merchant who was bargaining for
every rupee?

Smart people always use any loss as an opportunity for their growth.
Why should we not think it as an opportunity for all of us to break
loose for a while from the monotonous chores of our daily life?

Please take it as a unique opportunity for the sprouting up again of
the most valuable humane feelings. You might not know the faces of
the thousands who died in the catastrophe. But at least for a few
moments, just think of them as a very close relative of yours with real solidarity.

You will immediately note that the ice inside you melting, the numbness disappearing. All the hidden goodness in your heart suddenly awakens. Now you can see mercy radiating spontaneously from your eyes
when you see the affected people. Definitely all the misery for the
people will melt away in a short period of time. Definitely cheers will return to all the affected people. Let us pray for this to happen quickly.

Coutesy :

ANANTHA VIKATAN January 2005

Written
by
JAKKI VASUDEV

Translated by

EZHILARASAN VENKATACHALAM
Salem, South India




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