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Saroja aunty predicts my doubles driving ability long before I tried that.

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Let me tell a real life incident that I narrated to a sishya. It was to develop his "POSITIVE THINKING".

My Baby Saroja aunty (சின்னம்மா)  PREDICTED that I can drive doubles in my TVS 50. BUT SHE CAN'T EVEN DRIVE A CYCLE. HOW?

Please read on ..

A flashback  to around  2002  !!

Long back i.e., about 15 years ago, I was driving only singles in my moped, TVS 50. When I shared the fact with my maternal aunty, Bangalore Baby Saroja, she told me casually,  “Ezhil, do not worry, one day I am sure you will be able to drive your TVS 50 with your wife on the back seat of your two wheeler vehicle.”

She generally does not talk unnecessarily anything to anyone.  Hence, I "recorded" that statement in my mind.

Then after a few years my wife learnt to drive TVS 50 on her own.  I was waiting for this to happen and wanted to try out what my Saroja aunt said.

Finally one day, in an open ground near my father in law’s house, I drove my TVS 50 with my wife sitting on the back seat.  “Eureka!” I did it. Thanks to Baby aunty who  PREDICTED  long back that I can do it.

From then on, slowly I started driving with my wife on the back seat on roads but very cautiously. I improved day by day and after a year or so, I was able to drive in the town with my wife very casually. Generally, I avoided driving on a rainy day.

Until one year before my accident on 12th April 2007, I was driving with my wife on
the back seat.

I told my sisya  to find out “such” good people in his life like my Baby Saroja Aunty and meet them often. And then share with him or her ---all your dreams in life. .. your personal experiences and all your happiness and pains in life ...

And then “hear” what they say attentively and act upon it.

P.S. :

I am a DIFFERENTLY ABLED person with my right limbs affected by polio paralysis (My right hand functions : 10% and right leg functions 70%).
I was driving a moped for around 15 years)
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EZHILARASAN VENKATACHALAM
Tamil based English Trainer (worldwide)
SALEM, SOUTH INDIA.

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