Soft Skills and Personality Development

12 Tips to success -in Tamil நீங்கள் வெற்றியாளரா சுய பரிசோதனை செய்ய 12 வழிமுறைகள்!    #SuccessTips .................. நீங்கள் வெற்றியாளரா, தோல்வியாளரா? இப்படி ஒரு கேள்வியை யாரும் விரும்ப மாட்டார்கள் என்பதே உண்மை. ஏனெனில், எல்லோருமே வெற்றிப்படியை எட்டிப் பிடிக்கவே ஆசைப்படுகிறோம். ஆனால்,வெற்றியாளர்களுக்கும் தோல்வியாளர்களுக்கும் சில விஷயங்களில் வித்தியாசம் உண்டு. குறிப்பாக 12 விஷயங்களில்!  அவற்றைத் தெரிந்து கொண்டு, சரியான வழிமுறைகளக் கடைப்பிடித்தாலே போதும். நீங்களும் வெற்றியாளரே! அவை... 01 பிழைகள் வெற்றியாளர்: தன் மேலுள்ள தவறை பிறர் சுட்டிக்காட்டும்போது அதனை எதிர்க்க மாட்டார்; ஏற்றுக்கொண்டு அதைச் சரிசெய்துகொள்வதற்கான வழிமுறைகளை யோசிப்பார் . தோல்வியாளர்: தன் தவறை மற்றவர் மீது சுமத்திவிட்டு, தான் எப்படித் தப்பிக்கலாம் என்று யோசிப்பார். தன்னுடைய தவறைத் திருத்திக்கொள்ள எந்த முயற்சியையும் மேற்கொள்ள மாட்டார். 02 எண்ண ஓட்டம் வெற்றியாளர்: இயற்கையாகவே உறுதியான எண்ண ஓட்டத்தைக் கொண்டிருப்பார். தன் உணர்சிகளையும் கருத்துகளையும் நல்லெண்ண அடிப்படையிலேயே சிந்திப்பவர் இவர். ...

Power of being a teacher . . . This is interesting info : In 1994 INDIAN President Shri Shankar Dayal Sharma visited Muscat on official trip. When AI flight landed  3 rare incidents happened 1. Oman King never visits airport to receive dignitaries of any country - never . But the Oman king came to the airport to receive the  President 2. When the flight landed the Oman King climbed up the steps and received the President from his seat. 3 . After alighting the flight there was a car with the  Chauffeur standing . But the  King signalled the driver to move and he himself drove the car and escorted  the  President  to the Hotel  suite. Later when the  reporters questioned the King why he broke so many protocols, the  King replied : .“ I did not go to the  airport to receive Mr. Sharma because he was India’s President . I studied in India and  learnt so many things. When I was studying in PUNE , Mr. Sharma was my Pr...

Saroja aunty predicts my doubles driving ability long before I tried that. .. Let me tell a real life incident that I narrated to a sishya. It was to develop his " POSITIVE THINKING ". My Baby Saroja aunty (சின்னம்மா)  PREDICTED that I can drive doubles in my TVS 50. BUT SHE CAN'T EVEN DRIVE A CYCLE. HOW? BIRDS EYE VIEW of Ezhilarasan VENKATACHALAM's works .. ONLINE CLASSES -April 2021 .. Please read on .. A flashback  to around  2002  !! Long back i.e., about 15 years ago, I was driving only singles in my moped, TVS 50. When I shared the fact with my maternal aunty, Bangalore Baby Saroja, she told me casually,  “ Ezhil, do not worry, one day I am sure you will be able to drive your TVS 50 with your wife on the back seat of your two wheeler vehicle .” She generally does not talk unnecessarily anything to anyone.  Hence, I "recorded" that statement in my mind. Then after a few years my wife learnt to drive TVS 50 on her own.  I was waiting f...

25.08.2018 Dear friends, When the tsunami played havoc in December 2004, isha guru Jakki Vasudev wrote an article in Tamil in the magazine, Anantha Vikatan. It communicated in a lengthy article how we should react in case of a calamity. It helped me gradually come out of the the sadness then. I also translated that impressive article into English then and posted in a blog of mine. The recent havoc nature played on the people of Kerala was very painful to acknowledge.  While I was wondering whether I should great the Keralities for ONAM or communicate my concern for the bereaved lot, my friend SABARINATHAN's (HCMS78) words  brought out my exact feelings  ..  To repeat Sabbari's words... .. "Wish Manohar and family members, a very joyous and Happy Onam. May the Rain God show mercy on the Keralites to have an  enchanting and entertaining days and years ahead!" These soothing words made me recall a translation I did of JAKKI VASUDEV's article in 2005...

Run your own Race that leads to Peaceful, Happy Steady Life. .. Translation / தமிழ் மொழிபெயர்ப்பு  I was Cycling this morning and I noticed a person about half a km ahead. I could guess he was Cycling a little slower than me and that made me feel good. Hard words Meanings / vocabulary I said to myself I will try catch up with him. So I started Cycling faster and faster. Every block, I was gaining on him a little bit. After just a few minutes I was only about 100 feet behind him. So I really picked up the pace and pushed myself. I was determined to catch up with him. Finally, I did it! I caught up and passed him. Inwardly I felt very good. "I beat him". Of course, he didn't even know we were racing. After I passed him, I realized I had been so focused on competing against him that.. *I had missed my turn to my house*. I had missed the focus on my inner peace. I missed to see the beauty of greenery around. I missed to do my inner soul searching meditation. An...

Friends, Let us analysis the phrase " male chauvinist " today. Dictionary says " Male chauvinist " is ... "a man who believes that women are naturally less important, intelligent, or able than men, and so does not treat men and women equally". * Male chauvinism is the belief that men are superior to women. * =॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥=॥= About 72 years ago we Indians got independence from the British Rule. But are our women enjoying an independent life today ? Your wife, your daughters, your daughters in law are they enjoying enough independence ? Of course, our women in this generation do enjoy a great amount of freedom than the previous generations. However, whether we are Hindus, Muslims or Christians, I think there is still a great degree of male chauvinism in our society. We should take steps to liberalise our women more, if we want to consider ourselves as truly educated people. HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY TO ALL. Ezhilarasan Venka...

My Ex Boss KSM working experiences anecdotes Mr.K.SATHIYAMOORTHY TAMIL TRANSLATION / தமிழில் Friend,   My mentor  Mr.K.SATHIYAMOORTHY or KSM is one of the positive minded people who had greatly influenced my life.  Online classes  . BIRDS EYE VIEW of Ezhilarasan VENKATACHALAM's works I can say he was my mentor. I worked under him only for around 385 days or so. But the management experience that I gained from him is great. Perhaps, I can write a book . தமிழ் மொழிபெயர்ப்பு  CLICK HERE .. //  No doubt he turned me into an useful person to my family and the society.  He made me blossom as a respectable personality. He did this in a step by step method by making me forget my short comings while at the same time made me focus on and cultivate my inner strengths. We had great time together discussions, arguments, chit chat etc. I am indebted to him for my lifetime . My first job I worked in Hosur "premier mills ltd" for 8 years. (1986 to ...